Jingle Bell <> Anger Bell !!!

Anger men, Anger women, Anger all, and Anger all the way!!!

we seems to replace the rhythm

Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle all the way!!!

We have very less Jingle Bell around and more Anger Bell all around.. we don't like to miss any opportunity to show anger when we find someone done some mistake.. In day to day life I see people using this opportunity like if they don't grab it now they can never grab it..people don't want to miss any valid chance which give them genuine reason to be angry. Though we all know if we miss this chance to be angry and don't utilize it on proper time. late we may not be able to use it and that is good thing to do..I think this is only chance that everyone must try to miss but seems none is ready to miss.. You do a small mistake and be sure u r going to get scolding on very time. U feel bad and think yourself oh ..what is this ??? I didn't do it knowingly it was just a mistake but this person scold me badly.. but u know when u r at his position u do same..when someone do a small mistake u just don't miss a moment and try to use the best word u do remember to scold him/her that u ever learned ..U try to find a very best word that can fit to hurt him/her deeply..

why we forget that we all do mistake in life and when we do mistake and if in case other person just talk with us rather than scolding us..we feel good and we try not to repeat same mistake..I think rather then showing angry on someone mistake, why don't we try to be clam and give them best suggestion that help them not to repeat same mistake again..and it also help us to feel proud for helping other. the best way is when u see someone do some mistake just smile and tell "see u r just done some mistake. just be careful now onward to make sure u don't repeat it". if possible do suggest some way which help them for avoiding same mistake again. Also remind them not to feel guilt for doing mistake because we all do mistake..just we need to make sure we don't repeat it again.

Another reason for ringing Anger Bell is when u see things around u is not going the way as u want. again the famous Quote is ... "change the situation around u as u want BUT if u cant change the situation around u..change yourself according to the situation" .. all it says is just be happy don't get irritated even thing is not going as per your wish. try to adjust with it. at right time u see everything is fine. Just be clam.

My idea is, whatever is the situation, when u feel now u must be angry..just hold for few second .. and give yourself a change to wait for another situation that must make u angry.. don't try to utilize every valid reason that gives u right to be angry.. sometime not using right to be angry help u and help other person too to realise the mistake they have done.

Anger is not a solution. it doesn't help you not even the person who do something wrong. to realise and not to repeat same mistake..your smile on mistake will help them to realise again..so be clam.

so next time when u feel angry just ask yourself is it right time to be angry??? if u find answer is yes..just say yourself, Okay!!!..though its a right time to be angry..i want to win control on myself by not showing angry for this time.. i will be angry next time when i find more valid reason.. not being angry just help u more then the person who face it..when u r angry its harms u.. u loose relation..u loose respect from the person u were getting..anger is good but show it to yourself when u do some mistake..when other do mistake just help them with some good word so they don't repeat it again..u will get more respect from them ..that will give u a very good satisfaction..